A personal blog about eventing, horses & life in the middle of it all

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How to Handle a Vet Glance That Makes You Anxious

There is a particular kind of silence that can make a horse owner’s stomach drop. The vet pauses, looks at the horse again, or studies a swelling for a few…

Why I Never Skip the Trot Poles Before a Jump Round

There is always a moment before a show-jumping round when the temptation to save energy takes over. The horse has already worked, the arena is busy, and the…

The Time I Rode in the Dark and Learned to Trust My Seat

There are plenty of ways to discover that your horse knows more than you do. Some arrive during a cross-country run, when a ditch appears deeper than expected.…

What My Horse’s Favorite Treat Says About Our Bond

A horse’s favourite treat can seem like a small detail: the biscuit chosen from the feed-room shelf, the carrot expected after a lesson, or the particular…

How to Help a Horse That Gets Tense at Dressage Shows

A horse that feels settled at home can seem like an entirely different animal at a dressage competition. The arena may be familiar, yet the atmosphere is not:…

The Difference Between Riding Bold And Riding Reckless

In eventing, bravery has a particular look. It can be the decision to keep riding after a poor dressage mark, to trust a horse through a complicated…

Why I Book a Massage After a Major Horse Trial

After a big event, I am usually tired in a way that goes beyond sore muscles. My body has spent days absorbing the movement of the horse, the pressure of the…

What a broken stirrup leather taught me about preparation

There are horse-trial days when the plan unravels before the first bell. A horse warms up differently than expected, the weather changes, or a rider discovers…

The Value Of A Mentor Who Believes In You

Eventing has a way of making confidence feel temporary. A good dressage test can leave you floating until one missed transition replays in your mind. A careful…

How to Read Your Horse Before the Jump

A jump rarely surprises a horse as much as it surprises a rider. Long before the front feet leave the ground, the horse has usually offered clues through the…