A personal blog about eventing, horses & life in the middle of it all

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How I Manage Fear Before Cross-Country Galloping

Fear is part of my preparation for cross-country. I do not mean the dramatic, cinematic kind that makes me want to turn around and go home. Often it is quieter…

Building a partnership with a lease horse

Leasing a horse can feel like stepping into ownership without signing up for every financial, logistical, and long-term responsibility that comes with it. For…

Lessons from a Dressage Judge’s Comments

A dressage test can feel strangely brief. After weeks of schooling, hauling, braiding, warming up, and trying to keep nerves from taking over, the ride may…

Post-competition recovery for horse and rider

The final salute, the last fence, or the walk back through the finish flags can feel like the end of a horse trial. In reality, it is the beginning of another…

The bridle change that reshaped our rides

Tack changes rarely feel dramatic when they happen in the aisle. A different piece of leather is laid over the saddle rack, a bit is fitted, and the horse gets…

The difference between training at home and competing away

A horse can feel wonderfully settled at home and still seem to become a different animal when the lorry arrives at a competition venue. The arena is…

How My Family Supports My Equestrian Obsession

Eventing can look like a collection of exciting moments from the outside: a horse stretching through a dressage test, a clean show-jumping round, or the rush…

The Quiet Progress That Keeps Us Going At The Barn

A horse does not need to win a blue ribbon for a day at the barn to matter. Sometimes progress looks like a softer transition, a calmer grooming session, or a…

When Loading Became the Lesson

There are horse problems that announce themselves gradually. A missed lead becomes a training note, a rail down becomes a reminder to ride forward, and a tense…

The Mental Game of Walking a Cross-Country Course

Walking a cross-country course can look deceptively simple from the outside. Riders stroll from fence to fence, glance at the numbers, chat with friends, and…