A personal blog about eventing, horses & life in the middle of it all

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The Morning Routine That Sets Up a Good Show Day

A good show day rarely begins when the truck rolls through the gate or the horse enters the warm-up. It starts earlier, in the quiet hours when the yard is…

Choosing The Right Bit For Your Horse’s Mouth

Selecting a bit is less about finding the strongest piece of equipment and more about matching the horse’s anatomy, training, temperament and the rider’s…

The Quiet Pride Of A Clear Cross-Country Round

A clear cross-country round rarely arrives with the dramatic finish that fills a photographer’s frame. There may be no rosette lifted above a smiling face, no…

How to Handle a Vet Glance That Makes You Anxious

There is a particular kind of silence that can make a horse owner’s stomach drop. The vet pauses, looks at the horse again, or studies a swelling for a few…

Why I Never Skip the Trot Poles Before a Jump Round

There is always a moment before a show-jumping round when the temptation to save energy takes over. The horse has already worked, the arena is busy, and the…

The Time I Rode in the Dark and Learned to Trust My Seat

There are plenty of ways to discover that your horse knows more than you do. Some arrive during a cross-country run, when a ditch appears deeper than expected.…

What My Horse’s Favorite Treat Says About Our Bond

A horse’s favourite treat can seem like a small detail: the biscuit chosen from the feed-room shelf, the carrot expected after a lesson, or the particular…

How to Help a Horse That Gets Tense at Dressage Shows

A horse that feels settled at home can seem like an entirely different animal at a dressage competition. The arena may be familiar, yet the atmosphere is not:…

The Difference Between Riding Bold And Riding Reckless

In eventing, bravery has a particular look. It can be the decision to keep riding after a poor dressage mark, to trust a horse through a complicated…

Why I Book a Massage After a Major Horse Trial

After a big event, I am usually tired in a way that goes beyond sore muscles. My body has spent days absorbing the movement of the horse, the pressure of the…