A personal blog about eventing, horses & life in the middle of it all

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Why I Love the Smell of Hay in a Stalled Trailer

There are horse smells that cling to your clothes, settle into the mats of a truck, and follow you home long after the last bucket has been rinsed. Fresh…

What My First Fallout With A Trainer Taught Me

The first time I fell out with a trainer, I expected the hardest part to be the practical fallout. I imagined awkward conversations at the yard, uncertainty…

How to Handle a Horse That Bolts in the Warm-Up

A horse that bolts in the warm-up ring can turn an ordinary competition day into a serious test of judgment. The first few strides may look like fresh energy,…

The quiet magic of a perfect dressage halt

A dressage halt lasts only a few seconds, yet it can hold the entire story of a test. The horse steps forward from the final movement, the rider gathers the…

Why I Always Carry a Spare Set of Reins

There are plenty of things I remember packing before a horse trial: boots polished the night before, safety vest, medical armband, snacks that will probably…

What The Placing Judge Sees That I Don’t

From the saddle, an eventing round feels like a series of immediate problems. Is my horse listening? Did I prepare the turn? Are we going to make the distance?…

The art of giving your horse a quiet night before a big day

The evening before a horse trial can feel strangely important. The entries are checked, the tack is cleaned, the route has been studied, and the alarm is set…

Rebuilding Your Confidence After A Spooky Fence

A spooky fence can occupy far more space in a rider’s mind than it does in the arena. The actual moment may last only a few seconds: your horse sees something…

Why I keep a “good ride” list on my phone

My phone contains the usual collection of photos, messages, weather screenshots, and half-finished notes. It also contains a running list with a deliberately…

What a quiet water bucket taught me after cross-country

The horse had just finished a fast, demanding cross-country run, and every part of him suggested that water should be the first thing on his mind. His coat was…